The importance of introspection

Hmm...Have you ever being boycott by your frens?

For example, one day, all your friends beside you start to leave you and boycott you,
start not to talk to you, what will you do?

Different people will have different reaction on it,
as what i observed, there are 2 types of people,

First type,
She will just blame those who boycott her,
blame all of them because all of them suddenly get crazy and boycott her.

Second type,
She will ask herself why,
ask herself what she did?
ask herself "Isit my problem?"
ask herself "Isit my attitude's problem?"

If you are the first type, thats too sad (but people will not admit even though they are in this category, right?)

If you are the second type, congratulations! You have high EQ! (erm, does it mean that the first type has no or low EQ? errr......)

If you can have introspection and you are willing to change your attitude, then you will have your friends back, but remember, please dun repeat the same problem again, else no matter how many times you change, its useless, because all of us heard the story of the wolf (狼來了的故事) before, when the wolf lies too many times, his credit will have a negative value.

Lets think in this way, will a bunch of your frens boycott you TOGETHER without reason? (the main point is "together")
Are they too free, nothing to do?
Or they just have too many friends, thats why they use this way to reduce the number of friends?
Or you thought they are envying you?

Sometimes people just forget how important introspection is,
if you don't realize how important it is, then you can just continue losing frens without knowing the reason, or continue blaming those who boycott you, yet the problem is on you,
no one can help you...